All WE WANT ARE THE FACTSIn the TV series Dragnet Sargent Joe Friday had two phrases about facts”. “All we want to know are the facts” and “All we know are the facts” Joe Friday didn’t ‘t beat around the bush-all he wanted to know are the facts (if you are too young to remember “Dragnet”-google it). A comedy/crime movie starring Dan Aykroyd & Tom Hanks called “Dragnet” premiered in 1987. Dan Aykroyd played Sargent Joe Friday-the no-nonsense Los Angeles detective; Tom Hanks played a modern new-breed of cop named Pep Streebeck.
Consequences and political divisions of America’s Civil War is still with us today. That’s why it’s dangerous for us to throw around the phrase “civil war” today. More than likely those who throw around this term have never seen the horrors of war. War is not glamorous, war is not a game, it is utterly devastating for those who have lived through it-just as the Ukrainian people. The facts are-those who fight in wars are never, ever the same. Talk to any veteran of any war and they will tell you-war is hell. You cannot cause or see the carnage of war and not be haunted by it-no matter how justified you believe the cause is. When I began contemplating why history as we learned it may not be correct the phrase by Sargent Joe Friday, “Just the facts Ma’am” came to mind. When it comes to getting history correct, all I want to know are the facts-so here are the facts from historical “source documents”. Just the facts, without political spin. Because I love history and have interest the Civil war and the two World Wars America has fought in, I like to get the facts straight. Let’s consider the legacies of the two most famous generals of the of the war, Grant & Lee. These legacies, at least the way I learned them, are incorrect. For instance, I had always taken as truth that Grant was not a particularly impressive general. I realized that I, and maybe you too, did not really understand the man, Grant. Ronald C. White in his book, “American Ulysses” aims to set the record straight and introduce us to the real Grant. White relies on seven years of research and primary source documents previously ignored by other historians to and have interest introduce his readers to the Grant, the man. Grant is described by White as a gifted general, and adamant defender of equal rights in post war reconstruction. As president, he fought to put down the Klu Klux Klan and succeeded. I have often heard it said the United States (the Union) only won the Civil War because of overwhelming manpower, and/or because of vast resources. The United States did have both, but they, in and of themselves, did not win the war. The facts are -Rebels (the Confederates) had their own advantages, geography (750,000 square miles), fighting mainly in their own territory (home field advantage) seven of the eight military colleges were in the South (training). While Grant is often underrated, Lee is often overrated. The facts are-Lee refused to alter his battle plans or listen to his generals concerning the folly of frontal attacks (Pickett’s Charge-not sure what this is? Look it up) and ill-fated offensive maneuverers (two attempted northern invasions) were failures. Lee bore an astounding 209,000 casualties in one theater. With 55,000 fewer casualties than Lee in, not one, but two theaters, Gant simply out-generaled Lee. In Grants memoirs, considered by many to be a literary masterpiece, he sums up his thoughts about the Confederate cause “one of the worst for which people ever fought, and one for which there was the least excuse.” Fact-America is deeply divided today-it does not have to be, but it is. Fact-the roots of these divisions go back further than the Civil War but culminated in it. The war was fought over making sure the American democracy experiment continued. What was the American experiment you ask? That “all men (“persons” in today’s vernacular) are created equal…” Every person, no matter their race, religion, or ethnicity should be free to live life as they wish-and to pursue whatever makes them happy. If we/they respect the rights of others to live as they would like, and do not attempt to nullify those rights, we are all free! Not a political statement-its historical truths-not as you or I may want them to be. “All I want are the facts…”.
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ARE YOU AWAREIn May of every year, we acknowledge Mental Health Awareness Month. According to Merriam-Webster dictionary awareness means, “the quality or state of being aware, knowledge and understanding that something is happening or exists.
It is still amazing to me that we stigmatize mental health concerns and downplay our need to get some help at times. Why do we do this? Where did we get the idea depression, anxiety, and the like are things to be ashamed of? Ashamed of? Really? I recently saw a public service commercial on television put on by the Indianapolis Colts called, “kicking the Stigma”. It is quite amazing, it warmed my heart, to see NFL players and Coaches, and Team Owner Jim Irsay acknowledging that mental health is important. They talk about their own struggles with mental health issues-if you have not seen it, you should google it. You will be moved as I was. Let us be totally transparent here-we ALL have experienced some sort of mental issue. No, it does not mean that we are weak. No, it does not mean that we are somehow “less than”. No, it does not mean that we should feel we have to “pretend” things are ok-when they are not. In my own family I watched my mother and father struggle with depression. Others in my family have also struggled with it-myself included. Are you aware? Ass I thought about the importance of the month-I recalled a time when I was asked to speak at a “celebration of life” service for a family. I noticed to my left the family was sitting apart from the rest of those gathered at the church. The family was behind a thin curtain. Why, I thought. As I looked over toward the family, I could see them sitting there, but could not make out their faces. My thoughts at the time were, how tragic it is that we are so uncomfortable with human emotion that we would rather not see it. That we would rather hide ourselves behind a curtain-a curtain that hid us from others seeing us in this profoundly vulnerable, deeply human, moment. When someone is grieving over the loss of a dear, precious, loved one. We hear others, and ourselves, say things like, “Look at them, they are doing so well” what does “so well” mean? It means they are not weeping outwardly, showing emotion at their immeasurable loss, but just “handling it”. Are you aware? I need to ask-why is suppressing, denying, pretending, feigning, so extoled? The only answer I can come up with is-because we are simply uncomfortable with basic human emotions, in whatever way they are expressed. How sad for the person grieving to believe in front of others they must deny they ever cared about the dear one they lost. Better to deny emotion than display it right? Wrong! It’s the same with mental concerns-better to deny them than acknowledge them, right? Wrong! Are you aware? If we are to ever, ever, ever, to get past the stigma of experiencing mental concerns they must be acknowledged. Acknowledged in the sense that they are allowed, confessed to, and genuinely appreciated. Mental concerns must be seen as common, as ordinarily human, as common as the common cold. Because they are! Are you aware? We are as much emotional beings as we are physical beings. We emote all the time, we are never not emoting, we just do not always admit to it. I am tired of pretending-I would venture to guess you are as well. How about we begin, right now, to not deny, to not pretend, to not “make believe” we are fine when we are not. Are you aware? Can we embrace mental health and stop not admitting when we do not feel up to par? Can we finally bring mental health concerns into the light of day? Can we stop the unnecessary denial, the unnecessary pain, the unnecessary suffering that happens when we are afraid to admit that I too struggle with my mental health? The answer to these and other questions concerning mental health is a resounding, Yes! We must make a commitment to embrace all that it is to be human. Our mental health is a big part of what it means, in the deepest sense, to be human. Are you aware? Maybe you should be! |
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